Future Genius: Tell the step mother to be to write down on a piece of paper the vision she has for each of her step children, i.e. doctor, astronaut, starbucks barista, garbage man. Have the shower guests guess her predictions.

Scrampled Stepmother: Create your own word scramble using words that are associated with stepmotherhood, i.e. evil, Cinderella, ex-wife, child support, etc.

Stepmother Pictionary: Make cards (size of playing cards) with words associated with stepmothers on one side (the other side is left blank). Have each team choose an artist and a contestant. Each artist reads the word on their card and then draws their interpretation of the word on a piece of paper. Each contestant tries to guess the word that her artist team mate is drawing. The team that is correct most often wins the game. Some good words to use are: Alimony, custody, co-mamma, stepchild, stepmom, Mirror, mirror.

Who do you know? Have the shower participants write down the number of stepmothers they know personally. Then have them write down the fictitious stepmothers they've seen in television or literature. The person who has the longest list wins.

Who's the Ex Wife? Have each shower participant write down as much as they know about the ex wife. The person who knows the most, i.e. name, boyfriend or husband's name, height, weight, interests, etc. wins.

Stepmother Trivia: Create your own stepmother trivia.
Potential questions: What were the names of Cinderella's step sisters? What happened to Carol Brady's first husband? Which president of the United States attributed his education to his stepmother? Etc.